Isn't shukaansi haram?

Is shukaansi haram?

  • Yes

    Votes: 5 12.5%
  • No

    Votes: 35 87.5%

  • Total voters
    40
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Tukraq

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For us Somalis, this is how it goes...
Your parents talk to other people in the community/ in their network.
They find some decent hard working dude (hopefully)
Introduce the two
Talk on the phone
If you like the guy y’all maybe meet up with chaperone (Starbucks or dinner/lunch with chaperone, or meeting family )
If both are into it boom aroos, if you don’t then the guy won’t pass the phone talk phases
That’s for the betas, parents would look at you very negatively if they had to do all that, real Mali’s raise as the odayaal call it “ladies man” or “play boy”, and expect you to shukansi it up, they only resort to arranged if they think your butt ugly like what @Samaalic Eras parents thought about him, so they tried to help him out(didn’t work so instead of facing more rejection they forced his cousin)
 

Medulla

Bah Qabiil Fluid
I like talking to ladies, alone! I don’t want no creepy guy staring at me. Plus if it’s in public technically there’s hundreds of mahrams :zhqjlmx:

It must be the toxic masculinity in me but I love the idea of someone having to watch me flirt with someone they know LMFAOOOO.

:letmeeat:
 

Odkac WRLD

جندي صومال
VIP
That’s for the betas, parents would look at you very negatively if they had to do all that, real Mali’s raise as the odayaal call it “ladies man” or “play boy”, and expect you to shukansi it up, they only resort to arranged if they think your butt ugly like what @Samaalic Eras parents thought about him, so they tried to help him out(didn’t work so instead of facing more rejection they forced his cousin)
This method I speak of is pushed by older unmarried women or western girls with, shall I say, used goods :lolbron:
 

Tukraq

VIP
How old are you? My mum got married very young and is against me marrying as young as her.
She said I shouldn't even look at a man till I graduate and get a job:oops::oops:
By then you missed out as women secured the market already and all your potential options are married
 

Daacad90

Aspiring Buraanbur Artist.
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In Arranged marriages your family find someone and they bring them to the home. You can then converse with the presense of a Mahram and that doesnt mean someone sitting there with you but family present.

You can then accept or reject
I don't want my family to find and choose someone for me tho, I will choose who I marry.:fittytousand:
 
:zhqjlmx: ma aqani. She's even investing thousands of pounds for my 'aroos' I already told her I don't want one and would prefer to buy a house or something instead.


Listen to Hooyo walaal, and tell her Plo Koon is ready to bring the odyaal

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Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
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Indeed. My shukaansi Plan started since day 1 of Secondary school in UK. I made sure she knew that I was on her case. I annoyed her, stalked her and even made sure she hated me in every kind of ways, yet I was kind enough. Once I left, I made sure I left my anti-social behavior memory's on her, by being the biggest cock in the world

Fast forward to 2020, where I am 20, I am pleased to announce that I am happily married for 2 years now, with good intimacy
 

Daacad90

Aspiring Buraanbur Artist.
Indeed. My shukaansi Plan started since day 1 of Secondary school in UK. I made sure she knew that I was on her case. I annoyed her, stalked her and even made sure she hated me in every kind of ways, yet I was kind enough. Once I left, I made sure I left my anti-social behavior memory's on her, by being the biggest **** in the world

Fast forward to 2020, where I am 20, I am pleased to announce that I am happily married for 2 years now, with good intimacy
You're 20 and married for 2 years?:ooh: or is my reading comprehension 0?
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
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You're 20 and married for 2 years?:ooh: or is my reading comprehension 0?
Yep, Allahimdullah. 2 Years. I am doing well financially and even studies is going really well. 22nd Highest student in National University of Singapore. (Being top 50 in the whole country)

With hard work, everything can work in your desires.
 
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