I have this cadcad friend who went on a study abroad year and fell in love with this girl from the host Kazakhstan, whilst studying in China. I kept telling him it will not work for many reasons, including language barrier, kids struggling in adopting both cultures, extended family, and many more. Recently he narrated that his parents had arranged a marriage for him with another cadcad girl, and he has met the girl once. After further research, apparently arranged marriage is the norm in cadcad culture. He has not told his parents about the other girl, and the arranged marriage girl still expects to marry him. The guy is going to be heartbroken very soon ...
Cadcads have arranged marriage?
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Younes Osman
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Tbh, cadcad women are very beautiful women mashallah,
But he is going against his tradition to marry a foreign Kazakhstani girl in China. The uproar that will be ventured by his household when they find out is scary
Younes Osman
VIP
tbh, I always thought that cadcad were ashraf who were immigrants originally from Yemen
The girl is manipulating him by constantly snapping him and saying how she misses him, and he falls for it. Tbh he is a miskeen that is getting played. I tell him it won't work and he just replies 'you don't understand.'
Nothing wrong with arranged marriages as long as both parties consent.
If he does not want to marry the Refer Xamar girl his parents should not force him
If he does not want to marry the Refer Xamar girl his parents should not force him
Tell him to think with his mind, not with his emotions. Tell him about the long term consequences it can have when you engage in interracial marriages like the culture/language differences. It’s better if he takes the Somali girl instead of the ajnabi. It’s better for his future kids who don’t have to decide what culture they belong to.
Marrying your cousin is not incest as it was practiced by the best of humanity. I personally wouldn't do it but allow the ridiculingSorry to break it you guys.Cadcad is a genetical mutation found in people who like incest.
Xamari:Wanna marry
Cousin: Of course if it says it’s permitted in the Quran nothing bad will happen to our kids.
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It was a joke and I understood your perspective on what’s incest and what isn’t.
Why do Somali guys care about who an adult man marries or not? The virus of the habaryars is spreading rapidly and wildly.
