Single women over 30, enter please

Finesse said:

I know loads of women who got married in their late 20's and early 30s.

Some even to younger men.

Whatever is meant to be, is meant to be.

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Inquisitive_ said:

Your one of the few reasonable level headed female's on here not afraid to at least touch on the uncomfortable truth as it relates to the sister.

I don't think you'll ever understand how incredibly rare this is, as guys we don't shy away from telling each other the bitter cold truths, but hablaha for some reason almost always lie in each other's faces.

At least in the states you have female's that somewhat look after themselves unlike here in the UK so I could at least understand why they feel so entitled and put in minimal effort.

Imagine a population of mostly fat/obese Xaalimo's who don't even look after themselves physically or aesthetically despite biological predisposition, yet still feel incredibly entitled to good male but on her own timetable ?

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astorecalledkmart said:

You are mistaken. We are not my walaal as I can't be walaalo with an cadaan, gaal man. Furthermore, your life choices do affect (with an "a") me directly as I have to read through your nonsensical, incoherent drivel. Why don't you spam Arab forums instead? Somalis already have enough problems as it stands.

P.S.: I think that in order for that "No one" YouTube meme to work, the person you are mimicking must provide a response that would appear to make them ridiculous. As I understand in your example, "triggered somali males" appear to be susceptible to bouts of hysterical laughter for no apparent reason. This adds neither an informative nor comical element to your post, but only serves to underscore your lack of situational awareness in regards to popular culture. May I suggest watching some funny videos on YouTube today for examples on how to do the "No one" thing correctly? This could be in addition to your usual favourite YouTube program "How to Pretend to be Somali on the Internet"

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Caraweelo said:

You are still triggered and I'm still gonna live my life as I want and you can't do anything about it. Stay in denial and stay bitter while i'm living the best life I can.

This is a public forum not your house, if you are triggered by women having different views than you then get off the internet and go live in a cave.

p.s. I will mute your notification next time because you are not presenting any useful discussion.

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astorecalledkmart said:

For the sake of accuracy, my triggering is derived from the fact that you are an cadaan man with broken English. You always post offensive comments attacking Somalis, religion, and our culture, and then run away when you meet a Somali with a greater command of language than yourself. Gross generalizations that blindly insult millions or billions of people based on your own warped views isn't discourse, it's idiocy. People can upvote you all they want, but I see straight through your charade - you are neither Somali nor a woman.

Trying to spin this as a "bad Somali man is against women" debate is beyond stupid given my pro-feminist writings above, but then again, being the racist, anti-Somali pretender you are, that's the only narrative that your very limited degree of neuronal networks could provide. If you didn't understand what I wrote because you read at below second-grade level, I sincerely apologize. I am glad that you are muting notifications from me - a roundabout admission of defeat is an admission of defeat nevertheless.

Stay salty Sergei, Robert, or whatever your actual name is - until we meet again! I look forward to calling BS on whatever you have to post next.

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Caraweelo said:

It is not my problem that you live in your own bubble and not familiar with the existence of Somali Atheists and Somali Christians... surprise surprise WE exist You being in denial of the diverse groups of Somalis only show your narrow-minded way of thinking. You can't accuse everyone who disagree with you being a white.

I'm a somali and english is not my language and this thread is not an exam hall to test our english, if you want to brag about how much english you know, open your own thread for that.

This forum is for discussing about somalis, islam and culture and i will criticize any topic related to it as I want and if you get offended easily, it's your problem not my problem that you can't handle other somalis who have different views than you.

p.s. I will still mute your notification because you are repeating same points (cadaan, triggered).

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Finesse said:

It's never too late and inshallah you will get many lovely children.


Read this, a woman who is 52 finally gave birth to TRIPLETS, after years of trying to conceive.

Allah provides what he wishes to who he wishes.

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Gibiin-Udug said:

@Finesse I was at a wedding on Saturday, the bride was 32 and the groom was 26 this was both of their first marriages. Please don't give any thought to what these neck bearded, dragon breath losers have to say. These dusty men don't live in the real world, they talk to their pillows, pretending it's a woman. How can we possibly take them seriously? Especially the fat ass who's obsessed with women's weight. Rumor has it he looks like Dahir Calasow who gained 200 lbs.

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Finesse said:

It's never too late and inshallah you will get many lovely children.


Read this, a woman who is 52 finally gave birth to TRIPLETS, after years of trying to conceive.

Allah provides what he wishes to who he wishes.

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Halimo-2018 said:

Single is good. I love my individuality. I cant stand being defined by a man my whole life. Nothing against men that has always been my personality. Lifetimes comes down to experience we don't all have to live the same experience. Our parents relied heavily on their kids by the time they were 40 they were considered old lol whereas now not so much people can take burden off of their kids specially in the diaspora. However i think having kids is important to a woman's health not 10 kids but at least 1 or 2. I've seen so much regret on older women over 40 who never had kids i don't think a lot of women can handle that much regret. For sure not me i do respect any woman who's strong enough to handle it and i am absolutely not the kind of woman to look down on anyone who doesn't have kids i would welcome them to baby sit my kids to get their baby fever fix lol

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Yoo said:

Your 18-19...

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Halimo-2018 said:

Turned 30 in may. Alxamdulilah

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IftiinOfLife said:

Most 30-35 year old somali women are poor waiting for a somali man to save them financially. They are in student loan debt, have condominium debt, car lease debt, credit card debt, vacation debt and they socially drink. They are also the type to marry idris elba and not answer if hes muslim or not.

I think we need to teach somali guys how to be financially successful , as opposed to just surviving jail to save such women.

My advice to the somali girls 30-35? f*ck you, your generation never helped mine, all you guys did was gossip, scam the community, watch america's next top model, do shitty open spoken word poetry, hoe around, have jamaican kids, and do drugs, move back in with hoyo and abo, hide your tattoos with wrist bands, and pretend to be virgins!


To the good ones, I hope you find a man one day, keep your head up, i'm rooting for you.

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Yoo said:

Sure buddy

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