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SOULSEARCHING

SOULSEARCHING

Hakuna matata
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I cut off all my friends years back and kept one , but ended my friendship with her a month ago.
I decided I don't want any non Muslim friends but, now i'm lonely and so bored. I have no one to call, talk and go out with lol

Everyday I'm talking to my 4 walls in my room. Everyone has already established there friendships and I don't think they will bother to make friends with me. I've never had any Muslims friends it's really sad and makes me depressed.

The reason ended I my friendship with these white girls is because all they do is drink, drink drink...have haram relationships, their life styles are so boring too and their food is bland. They can't cook ..I feel sorry for Somali men who marry Becky.
 
VantaBlack

VantaBlack

Sometimes it is good to be alone, so that you can work on self improvement. Be well established in yourself, and then go out into the world, the right people will come to you.

Think about it, we come alone to the planet and we die alone leaving behind everything that we have come to love. For ultimate happiness, you have to be happy alone, and you must have internal peace no matter where you are.
 
SOULSEARCHING

SOULSEARCHING

Hakuna matata
VIP
VantaBlack said:
Sometimes it is good to be alone, so that you can work on self improvement. Be well established in yourself, and then go out into the world, the right people will come to you.

Think about it, we come alone to the planet and we die alone leaving behind everything that we have come to love. For ultimate happiness, you have to be happy alone, and you must have internal peace no matter where you are.
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Socializing is good for your mental health, I don't want to get dementia at a young age. But I understand sometimes it's good to be alone.
 
Happy_

Happy_

Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
SOULSEARCHING said:
I isolated myself for years now I'm regretting it, let's be friends. Where do you live?
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I said i isolate myself :gucciwhat: For now it feels good. I rather be alone than have bad company. From what you said you made the right decision. You need friends that have the same goal as you. Go to your local masjid and check if they have interesting lectures. If they do, go to them you‘ll meet good ppl insha‘allah. Stay strong habebty ♥️
 
CaliTedesse

CaliTedesse

I ❤️ Islam & Aabo Kush. Anti-BBB Anti-Inbred
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SOULSEARCHING said:
I cut off all my friends years back and kept one , but ended my friendship with her a month ago.
I decided I don't want any non Muslim friends but, now i'm lonely and so bored. I have no one to call, talk and go out with lol

Everyday I'm talking to my 4 walls in my room. Everyone has already established there friendships and I don't think they will bother to make friends with me. I've never had any Muslims friends it's really sad and makes me depressed.

The reason ended I my friendship with these white girls is because all they do is drink, drink drink...have haram relationships, their life styles are so boring too and their food is bland. They can't cook ..I feel sorry for Somali men who marry Becky.
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Don't break contact you will regret it. Keep contact but not too much contact. Keep them at bay. Completely closing them off is wrong.
 
Basra

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
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SOULSEARCHING said:
I have a gym at home, I need to gain weight too I'm really skinny.
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U don't need friends dear less sin exposure and jealous eyes. Pick a hobby and consume it passionately! Hey we are your friends here in Somali spot loooooooooooooool
 
Halimo-2018

Halimo-2018

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I feel attacked lol stop shading me. You're improving yourself by reexamining your friends. It can be lonely don't worry you will learn a lot in the process.try to make new friends who aren't gossipers friend who wont judge you for pulling out your pray mat in corner. Your religion is big part of your identity its important to keep friends who wont judge you for that. You're outgrowing your friends and thats ok. To overcome loneliness for now keep your family close and fill your schedule with work/school and fun activities.
 
VantaBlack

VantaBlack

Basra said:
U don't need friends dear less sin exposure and jealous eyes. Pick a hobby and consume it passionately! Hey we are your friends here in Somali spot loooooooooooooool
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Basra I sense that you have a profound fear of intimacy. You are one of those that run for the hills if you so much as smell the hint of true friendship, love, camaraderie etc

:hmm:
 
beenleey

beenleey

Do you live in an area with no muslim girls you can be friends with? I live in a 98% white town and most of my friends are white aswell, I have a few black friends but thats it but in general idc for islam so lack of muslim friend doesnt personally matter for me
 
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