My Newly married cousin wants to divorce his wife-

Dalmoor · Mar 9, 2019

sophisticate said:
From my understanding, some men are more committed to fidelity and monogamy than others. Do you think I want to risk ending up with a lewd and impulsive maniac? Those expectations should be clarified before the marriage.

A man with a strong capacity for delayed gratification is preferred. I would like that trait to be passed down to his offspring.

Also, there are men who despite having a libido-charged wife still step outside or get a different wife. Sex isn't always the panacea to a marriage. Though as you've stated I see how it would be important to men.

Bullshit, men go for polygamous marriages because the wife doesn't fulfil the requirements like not producing enough kids or not giving enough sex. These are the main reasons why polygamy is common within the Somali community.

Now back to the topic. You're not a man and you still don't respect our nature. That is the problem. Sex for us is extremely important, maybe not for you guys but it is for us and smart women understand this so they can have a healthy marriage. You also have to follow the Islamic rules. The wife is not allowed to refuse sex from the husband and Allah who created us understands us humans far better than anyone else and there is a reason why he made this law to prevent men from cheating or other problems for that matter.

Delayed gratification? Just say you want a man with a low libido. He's most likely going to have a low testosterone level and be less manly. He may have other qualities you prefer from a man but he wont be handsome or muscular. You're not built for them nor do you deserve them.
:manny:

Kodeen · Mar 9, 2019

She's probably one of those weird girls that married him for ulterior motives. Maybe she's got mental issues and is going through a bout. Maybe she did what she thought was right and get married as Somalis like to preach, only to regret it. Either way, doesn't seem like your cousin provoked it.

He needs to get out and carry on with his life.

Forget sex, if you can't even kiss your wife, that really ain't your wife. That's a housemate at best and a leech at worst

Sophisticate · Mar 9, 2019

Dalmoor said:
Delayed gratification? Just say you want a man with a low libido. He's most likely going to have a low testosterone level and be less manly. He may have other qualities you prefer from a man but he wont be handsome or muscular. You're not built for them nor do you deserve them.

My child, @Dalmoor don't be triggered.

You're 18 meaning the raging hormones are still quite high. So, your perceptual lens is a little foggy. Men my age are declining in testosterone. And even if that isn't so, I have an occult knowledge of herbs which I can disguise in any recipe. Promise not to inform my future Alpha spouse. He'll learn to enjoy wearing an apron and making me a grain-free dessert.

Lostbox · Mar 9, 2019

Fly in the lawyers and kick her out the house. It time for a new wife, this on broken.

Libaaxseendheer · Mar 9, 2019

Karim said:
@AussieHustler Wallaahi ain't lying but you sound like the 40 seconds type. You would in less than a minute out of appeasement for your wife.

the trick is even if you finish quickly you keep going until shes finished.

Libaaxseendheer · Mar 9, 2019

Teeri-Alpha said:
he needs to gag her mouth with socks, tight her up, hands behind her back and take 1/4 Viagra pill and smash her the entire 3 days non stop,

i am sure i read a hadith a female cannot ask for divorce after she is taken home after nikah, there is wisdom, there is a chance she will stay after he makes love to her, double check, dont quote me on it,

Yeah buddy thats uhh...........rape

Farjano-Walad · Mar 9, 2019

Yaquub said:
She is the shaytaan in this case. I know white es that would make better wives. I can't believe a Muslim woman could do this. She could be pregnant since she's acting weird. I'm suspicious.

god knows best, but major red flags my friend, massive red flags,

when Hitler was negotiating with Stalin in 1938/9 there were major red flags even the British and yankis knew he would invade, massive red flags, Stalin was on one hand negotiating but also getting ready for Hitlers invasion as early as 1936, because he saw massive red flags,

always judge by action, always,

Abdalla · Mar 10, 2019

Karim said:
What's your suggestion apart from divorce?! Beat her up?! Strangle her?! Plenty of his family members told him to take it easy on the situation and wait a bit longer.

Karim · Mar 10, 2019

Abdalla said:

Maybe that's what she wants in order to eternally ruin his life forever. One swing at her and he'll be in jail.

A_A · Mar 10, 2019

Teeri-Alpha said:
he needs to gag her mouth with socks, tight her up, hands behind her back and take 1/4 Viagra pill and smash her the entire 3 days non stop,

i am sure i read a hadith a female cannot ask for divorce after she is taken home after nikah, there is wisdom, there is a chance she will stay after he makes love to her, double check, dont quote me on it,

AussieHustler · Mar 10, 2019

Good to see @sophisticate successfully delivering her tableeq on @Dalmoor

Kaiser · Mar 10, 2019

@sophisticate A female that with holds sex and food in a relationship, needs to get divorced ASAP. What she did was basically a crime against marriage itself. :gaasdrink:

Sophisticate · Mar 10, 2019

AussieHustler said:
Good to see @sophisticate successfully delivering her tableeq on @Dalmoor

He will make a lovely male feminist. :gaasdrink:

Kaiser said:
@sophisticate A female that with holds sex and food in a relationship, needs to get divorced ASAP. What she did was basically a crime against marriage itself.

Whatever happened to keeping the spark alive? Absence makes the heart grow fonder. :dabcasar:

Don't tell me you men want your wives at home all the time for easier access. What she needs is to a vacation to fend off the wear and tear inflicted on to her body from having successive waves of offspring with oblong heads. :siilaanyolaugh: That's what happens when one uses natural methods and shags from dusk til' dawn (according to your wild imaginings at least).

Kaiser · Mar 10, 2019

sophisticate said:
Whatever happened to keeping the spark alive? Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Don't tell me you men want your wives at home all the time for easier access. What she needs is to a vacation to fend off the wear and tear inflicted on to her body from having successive waves of offspring with oblong heads. :siilaanyolaugh: That's what happens when one uses natural methods and shags from dusk til' dawn (according to your wild imaginings at least).

Obviously i don't want my wife at home all the time, and i need her to work too to provide the family a extra hand and give us a chance to spare money so that we can take our family on vacation or buy important and useful items for the family.

But one of the important things in a relationship is that a partner needs to please their lover. If not, then they simply don't love them or even care about their lovers sexual needs. Something that should be absolutely basic, and easy to understand. If i'm going to marry some female, then she at least needs to meet the same requirement as myself. She needs to have high sexual drive, and be a freak under the sheets. She needs to be someone that always makes you excited and full of life whenever you think about her. Someone that cares about her families health, and knows how to feed them the proper way (even tho i ain't good in the kitchen, i will still try and help her out at lest and learn something from the way she is cooking). These are just the basic requirement, and there is a lot more to be expected in a relationship.

I don't even need that many offspring, having only 2 is more then enough. I also would like a wife that take cares of her health, and hit the gym after giving birth (Of course it would be after few month of resting, and she is feeling normal again). A lot of females don't remove a lot of the fat that is left behind by pregnancy, so they end up becoming obese.
:samwelcome:

Nalle · Mar 12, 2019

PuntiteQueen said:
Yeah, this could be the reason for her personality switch.

If experts determine there is no sixir, then it's her and he needs to file to have the marriage annulled.

Tukraq said:
never thought of that that might be just about right, I would follow that plan after asking her what the issue was and to stop being a weirdo

Haa wallahi, the Prophet scw even said that the evil eye can kill. She went from being the one initiating the marriage to a completely plastic caag within a few months...she is either having a psychosis or she definitely got evil eye, personally, I think the later one.
Also speaking of mental issues she might have bipolar, meaning she might have been on her maniac period when she married him and now she is battling her depression cycle...I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case either.

@Karim hopefully you will advice your bro to do Quran saar and help her seek Psychiatric help before he takes further serious action.

Mahacagalla · Sep 19, 2019

East side said:
The bounce walk is their secret walk. The aggressive nose ring thats high up rather than normal. The dark lipstick. They are everywhere

I dates a Xalimo like this and she said lesbians constantly hit on her looool

jamal9 · Sep 19, 2019

When she falls asleep, why can't he just go and fcuk her?

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