If your ex and your first love got divorced and runs back to you?

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Jaydaan

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VixR said:
The ROI on marriages to Somali guys is practically zero as an average from what I’ve seen.

If you found one good person, you’re not going to find another. A lot of them don’t understand the idea of building something together.

Somali women and their children are of no value in Somali culture. Divorce her, marry another, stay married and f*ck with others, go overseas to pawn desperate girls, cut ties with their kids, etc.

You’re more likely to find value outside Somalis. It’s not worth it.

This shit he described isn’t even the worst of it, and its very common.
I can tell by your tenacity for polygamy that your kids won’t have much value in their lives.
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Why do you talk in absolutes. You talk like your opinions are fact lool. Read that again....if a woman finds one good somali man she will not find another one. Please god dont make me a know it all smartass
 
dr.leorio

dr.leorio

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Jecyl is fickle and will eventually fade.

Sure you can sympathize with your ex but she did you dirty first by rejecting you and choosing another guy. Does your dignity and pride mean nothing to you? You will take a massive L if you take her back.

My advice sxb is to stick with your current family and continue to build with them. The feelings of nostalgia will die off eventually. My 2cents.
 
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HalimaJ

IstarZ said:
You think of polygamy as just adding another. Like it’s that simple. Waxkasto fudeed ee kula yihiin.
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This is the man that thinks raising kids is easy and so is motherhood. He is also convinced young women prefer men who are old enough to be their dad. Looooool.

He is either a troll or clueless about life.
 
Tukraq

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HalimaJ said:
This is the man that thinks raising kids is easy and so is motherhood. He is also convinced young women prefer men who are old enough to be their dad. Looooool.

He is either a troll or clueless about life.
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yes I think raising kids is easy, never mentioned motherhood if you mean giving birth and never said that was easy, and its statistically true most women date/marry older and wouldn't mind men there dads age if they had the right social status and wealth
 
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Tukraq said:
yes I think raising kids is easy, never mentioned motherhood if you mean giving birth and never said that was easy, and its statistically true most women date/marry older and wouldn't mind men there dads age if they had the right social status and wealth
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Raising muslim kids in the west is hard as hell. Or you mean just keeping them alive?
 
IstarZ

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Tukraq said:
how is having 4 wives mediocre?:faysalwtf: you got to be extraordinary to pull it off
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There’s nothing extraordinary about lying to, betraying, or cheating women out of their own hagbad money to marry them. These are tactics employed by Somali men to fulfil their quota of 4.
 
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TekNiKo said:
What should I do? I have already moved on and got married and now my ex wants me to marry her after being divorced. She wants me to make her second wife? What should I do?
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IstarZ said:
You’re a scumbag. If you had any decency you’d have no contact with your ex as a married man with a family. Nothing human about your actions. It’s selfish and self-serving.
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He is allowed 4 wives. It's not like his doing anything wrong.
 
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IstarZ said:
There’s nothing extraordinary about lying to, betraying, or cheating women out of their own hagbad money to marry them. These are tactics employed by Somali men to fulfil their quota of 4.
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It is if it works lool. Tbh i never heard a woman cheated out if her hagbad
 
Halimo-2018

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TekNiKo said:
What should I do? I have already moved on and got married and now my ex wants me to marry her after being divorced. She wants me to make her second wife? What should I do?
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If shes willing to be a second wife for you shes's either desprate or she's learned her lesson.She could also be in a hurry to be in a rebound relationship, the same way she got over you she could be doing the same to her ex husband and that is dangerous because she's using both of you. If your wife is good to you i dont think she deserves this. Your loyalty is to your to your wife now am sure she'll understand.
And finally if you're broke then don't even bother lol
 
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HalimaJ

Tukraq said:
yes I think raising kids is easy, never mentioned motherhood if you mean giving birth and never said that was easy, and its statistically true most women date/marry older and wouldn't mind men there dads age if they had the right social status and wealth
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Statistically women marry men 2-8 yrs older NOT men double their age.
 
IstarZ

IstarZ

A mere finger can’t obscure the sun.
Halimo-2018 said:
He is allowed 4 wives. It's not like his doing anything wrong.
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This is usually their argument. I’m not disputing the legality of it in the Islamic concept but the callous nature in which they execute it. It’s betrayal. It’s achieved thru shady means with little regard for the other parties involved.
 
Tukraq

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HalimaJ said:
Statistically women marry men 2-8 yrs older NOT men double their age.
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I would say 2-10year gap is there ideal, they don't mind larger in the right circumstances(social status/wealth), infact I wouldn't be surprised if double their age was close to or more frequent than exactly their age as a choice, less than their age would be near impossible as they never date younger
 
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