New trend with the young females in Somalia.

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
No, I’m learning my parents would have a heart attack at their age if an MJ other than Micheal Jackson is mentioned, especially within the sentence “marriage” lol.
Excuse me!!!!!!


**takes off her earrings***

Meet me outside now!
 

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
I don’t think so, @nine barely takes a shower, he has dreadlocks, smokes weed.

And @mrlog wears pink cardigans, gets manicures every week, drinks green tea 4 times a day, occasionally fights with shaytaan in his sleep but keeps losing the fight.But someone told me he’s tall and has 3 packs instead of 6 packs.


I don’t think they’re related.
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
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I don’t think so, @nine barely takes a shower, he has dreadlocks, smokes weed.

And @mrlog wears pink cardigans, gets manicures every week, drinks green tea 4 times a day, occasionally fights with shaytaan in his sleep but keeps losing the fight.But someone told me he’s tall and has 3 packs instead of 6 packs.


I don’t think they’re related.


I see. @nine is related more to @AussieHustler then
 

VixR

Veritas
Excuse me!!!!!!


**takes off her earrings***

Meet me outside now!
I’m curious, do your family feel the same about SL folk? I’m sure they must.
excuse me! My reer ayeeyo are phenomenon! Very rich and established. Mashalaaah


ps r u isaaq?
I’m sure they’re well established.

Yes lol. The only Somali guy I dated was Isaq by accident. I didn’t know bc we didn’t ask each other. I didn’t even know my qabil att. He was just Somali as far as I was concerned, and really handsome. We met out of state, and we started seeing each other seriously. My parents were happy as clams when they found out what he was after talking to his folks, bc I didn’t know what to say when they asked me where he was from lol.

Are you like that for your kids?
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
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It is the culture of the elite, & civilized Marehaan custom, to give the husband a son heir & another son spare & then the other kids can be magically sired by a love match rather than arranged marriage husband. Or in modern terms: divorce.
Lmao been baadana, there is no such a thing :pachah1:
It was @nine all along, he fled to Canada and started working as a warehouse delivery truck driver.
:deadrose:
Why did she do the brother like that? :drakelaugh:
 

TekNiKo

“I am an empathic and emotionally-aware person.
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Thanks for your previous input sxb, this whole thing is a recent phenomenon from what I heard which is now exploding.

When did you get married yourself? and how old was your wife? from what I heard it's now dominant with the <20 females.

My first impression was that these are just beta male's, but then I started seeing it happen to experienced male's who left Europe.

Then I thought she was just shy and the dude lacked seduction skills, but was told you can't even come close to many of them.

It's good to see you that you wasn't tested with this.
My wife was 18 and I was 23, I guess were very close. That guy is definitely flawed and his af somali or culture awareness was very low. I spent 2 years in Cabuudwaaq, Mudug and 1 year in Xamar before getting married. I wanted to learn the art of shukaansi and how to court these women, in the beginning it was very hard cause the signalling is so much different but I got the hang of it. Rer Mudug women were the hardest but I eventually mastered the art of shukaansi with them, they respect a distant stern man while rer muqdisho girls are alot more romantic/western oriented.

I think its very important to steep yourself in the culture and become a local for a couple years before you get married. Otherwise your marriage will be a disaster like my cousin who came straight from England married a girl and divorced after 4 months due to cultural differences.
 
My wife was 18 and I was 23, I guess were very close. That guy is definitely flawed and his af somali or culture awareness was very low. I spent 2 years in Cabuudwaaq, Mudug and 1 year in Xamar before getting married. I wanted to learn the art of shukaansi and how to court these women, in the beginning it was very hard cause the signalling is so much different but I got the hang of it. Rer Mudug women were the hardest but I eventually mastered the art of shukaansi with them, they respect a distant stern man while rer muqdisho girls are alot more romantic/western oriented.

I think its very important to steep yourself in the culture and become a local for a couple years before you get married. Otherwise your marriage will be a disaster like my cousin who came straight from England married a girl and divorced after 4 months due to cultural differences.
I have experience with mudug female's and want no part of that culture, especially the new generation who have little no social skills but are as hot as coal in temperament.

What makes them worse today is that the intelligence is also lacking in comparison to the older generation who at least had that, as a result a lot of fellow older reer-mudug males warn me about them.

They also practice the fircawni gudniin in those places which to me is a major put off, something most other regions in Somalia abandoned, not sure if they do the same in caabudwaaq still.
@Inquisitive_ is either an insensitive quumay or just inexperienced virgin, regardless of fircown or “sunna” sex is painful for most virgin women. To add to the pain and discomfort we have inexperienced Faraxs who think sex is just sticking it in. The more a woman is turned on the less pain she will feel.
How am I insensitive exactly? what exactly in my post triggered you make that abhorrent statement?

I am simply sharing a message, didn't even give my own opinion on what I would do if placed in a similar situation may Allah protect me from it, this is just the reality of life back home which at some point I will be faced with.
:dead:

Spanking isn’t enough for Inquisitive, edo. He suffers from rape fantasies.
Why would I ever need to resort to that when so many are eager and willing in this era of sexual freedom and liberation? of which you as a nihilist hedonist would be the first in line?

I am glad I have never come across your types in Jaahiliya, because otherwise like Pope Jon XII, I would have died from paralytic stroke due to excess.
 
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wawenka

Guul Ama Geeri
I used to hear this a lot but always thought it was just isolated cases until I was told by many it’s the norm today with the new generation of female’s growing up in Somalia that are getting married.

The young wife tells the husband on the first night of marriage “not to come anywhere close to her with a serious face” and she maintains this stance until she feels she is about to be overpowered.

They have been inculcated with the mindset that you only give it up with a fight and if you don't, your marriage will be in ruins because the husband is a doqon.

The locals know the score but it’s the diaspora males who always get caught out with this, there are many cases were the male was patient for over a month until they sought divorce with the mistaken belief she wasn't interested.

Others weren't so kind and thought they were getting played and as a result lost there temper and the moment the wife noticed he was about to become violent she gave it up quick.

It seems that because there is no casual dating culture back home, the only way for her to test your fortitude as a husband, provider and protector is through that litmus test to see if you have what it takes.

At first, I was disturbed by this but when you compare this to the crazed diaspora females who shamelessly chase you for this while turning themselves into cheap public properties, it doesn’t sound as crazy anymore.

I would like to get an input from @TekNiKo and other who went back home.
Don't mind me I'll be out of your way in to time, just a little curious where do you get your sources/facts from?
 

TekNiKo

“I am an empathic and emotionally-aware person.
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I have experience with mudug female's and want no part of that culture, especially the new generation who have little no social skills but are as hot as coal in temperament.

What makes them worse today is that the intelligence is also lacking in comparison to the older generation who at least had that, as a result a lot of fellow older reer-mudug males warn me about them.

They also practice the fircawni gudniin in those places which to me is a major put off, something most other regions in Somalia abandoned, not sure if they do the same in caabudwaaq still.

How am I insensitive exactly? what exactly in my post triggered you make that abhorrent statement?

I am simply sharing a message, didn't even give my own opinion on what I would do if placed in a similar situation may Allah protect me from it, this is just the reality of life back home which at some point I will be faced with.

Why would I ever need to resort to that when so many are eager and willing in this era of sexual freedom and liberation? of which you as a nihilist hedonist would be the first in line?

I am glad I have never come across your types in Jaahiliya, because otherwise like Pope Jon XII, I would have died from paralytic stroke due to excess.
I guess I found a diamond in the dust in Mudug cause my wife doesnt display the typical Mudug attributes. Maybe its cause we relocated to xamar that affected it. but your right majority are hot heads.

Yes fircooni is also popular in cabudwaaq.
 

SOULSEARCHING

Hakuna matata
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What culture is this? Are these women becoming feminist? If you stop your husband from having intercourse with you, in Islam you are earning Allah (SWT) anger and collecting major sins.
 
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