Somali girls family REFUSES to attend the wedding of their daughter and a yardie

VixR said:

Let’s go with the assumption he’s a thug.

An overwhelming % of Somali guys in the West are indistinguishable from Black guys. Same high divorce rate, same lack of involvement in their kids lives.

Where’s the high ground of making a stink of this?

The fact is, there’s a surplus of Somali girls in the West who can’t find anything but losers when they look around.

When mediocrity is the accepted norm, why get mad when the mediocre pick of the week isn’t you?

For Somali girls from decent families who have better standards, it won’t be a thug they pick, but it won’t be a Somali community loser either.

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Jaydaan said:

But if its a thug and the family say no.....what does a lot of somali guys being thugs has to do with this families decision? Is the argument well other girls marry thig so why cant I? Lol even if the guys a thug you managed to blame the somali family. You never surprise me

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babooshke said:

wake up honey, every culture/nationality in the world is "Racist"

do you think his family is happy that he's marrying a Somali?

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VixR said:

I don’t know if he’s a thug. I know he’s a revert. All I’m saying is, there’s a lot of mediocrity so I don’t understand how people are ok with it all except when they see it in action just bc this guy is from outside the community.

If standards are low inside the community on average, how do you suddenly expect them to be better outside it?

Ironically, the guy making this thread knifes people for a living. You can’t make this shit up.

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VixR said:

Let’s go with the assumption he’s a thug.

An overwhelming % of Somali guys in the West are indistinguishable from Black guys. Same high divorce rate, same lack of involvement in their kids lives.

Where’s the high ground of making a stink of this?

The fact is, there’s a surplus of Somali girls in the West who can’t find anything but losers when they look around.

When mediocrity is the accepted norm, why get mad when the mediocre pick of the week isn’t you?

For Somali girls from decent families who have better standards, it won’t be a thug they pick, but it won’t be a Somali community loser either.

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Jaydaan said:

Over 90% of revers are ex con. End of the day you right about water seeking its own level. But no one wants their child to marry to a bum. But the thinking is atleast if its somali bum you can have relationship with his family to work things through as you have same culture. Compared to foreign trash.

But Im more curious why a man want to marry into a family who feels so strong about him than they are ready to disown their daughter. Marriage is hard enough. I would just bounce and leave them alone. I have a friend who was rejected by family based on clan and girl wanted to runaway with him. He said no and left them all alone

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CanoGeel said:

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Jaydaan said:

Its fake because these somalis and west indians who preach multiculturalism know full well they wouldnt want that in their country. If you look at their tweets you will also see them talk sh1t about white people while living in England who is a white country. Its why we have brexit......these people are tone deaf on what the average English think of them

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VixR said:

Nah, that’s not how real life works. If your community is full of bums, “he’s not a Somali bum” is not a compelling argument.

Just know that with the normalization of these low standards, some girls accepting Somali losers comes with some also accepting ajnabi losers. Same thing with wanting Somali girls to be accepting of multiple wives, but throwing up a stink when its to a revert. It’s all baseless.

I’m not altogether against the notion. It depends on the person. If I find someone I want to spend my life with and we’re sure of it, family would have to come around. If they choose to disown you, that speaks volumes as to what you meant to them in the first place. I can’t imagine how she must feel. But for her to have taken that risk, they must mean a lot to each other.

I’m not any of those things lol.

Try common sense.

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Jaydaan said:

First of all he is Jamaican....so if somalis are bums....they are no better. Secondly Im actually surprised you would choose a man over your family. I actually thought you were smart lol. Never thought you were one of those our love will overcome everything. A woman who would drop her family for me lacks strong conviction and woukd drop our family for something else tomorrow. Big red flag

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VixR said:

I just know realistically, it might be something I might need to fight for in the future bc of my situation.

The huge difference with me is, I can assure you I’m not the type to be into bums, so if I feel so strongly about someone, and they don’t accept it and further threaten to disown me, I think that’s a crossroads I might have to reach. It’s up to them. It’s no way to live to be scared of being disowned for who you chose to care for.

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Knowles said:

Sad that no one likes Somali men. Hopefully you all face exinction. Your fathers ruined your own country so blame them.

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Knowles said:

Sad that no one likes Somali men. Hopefully you all face exinction. Your fathers ruined your own country so blame them.

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Jaydaan said:

A man is a man. A bum is just financial situation. Also have you ever heard someone say im into bums lol. Everyone think they got a great person. But how many women have thought they have a great man only years later see histrue character. Its not about being scared of being disowned. Its about who you would rather have relationship with rest of your life. I couldnt do that because I know I would resent that woman later on knowing what I sacrificed with. But women even educated and smart ones are wired differently when it comes to love they through logic and pragmatism out of the window.

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Baki said:

Wtf is that supposed to mean ?

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VixR said:

Let’s go with the assumption he’s a thug.

An overwhelming % of Somali guys in the West are indistinguishable from Black guys. Same high divorce rate, same lack of involvement in their kids lives.

Where’s the high ground of making a stink of this?

The fact is, there’s a surplus of Somali girls in the West who can’t find anything but losers when they look around.

When mediocrity is the accepted norm, why get mad when the mediocre pick of the week isn’t you?

For Somali girls from decent families who have better standards, it won’t be a thug they pick, but it won’t be a Somali community loser either.

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VixR said:

You don’t know me.

I’m not sure my family would do that. We’re very close. I don’t see the logic and pragmatism in threatening to disown someone. You’re choosing to sever family ties with them on a condition. If they have the stomach to say something like that to me, I can’t see how it’s something we can backtrack from. If before it was a disagreement, after such words are said its insult and injury. You just told me you want nothing to do with me if I do X or Y. There’s not much left to say after that.

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Kurolady08 said:

That's we're no position to call white people racist. Islamphobic, yes, but racist no. A spades a spade. In some ways, Somalis are worse.

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Jaydaan said:

Loool you have too much pride.....aint no going back once we cross that eh. Well i hope you dont experience that. Not a nice sutuation overall. I advised my friend to leave his situation and luckily he did and married someone else.

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Baki said:

What you think we are monolithic? we are not, just because you see a few crack pots online spouting alt-right nonsense don't mean we all share the same mindset, and generalizing millions of Somalis based on what ? a few tweets and this obscure forum you need to get a clue.

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VixR said:

In my estimation, he didn’t really care for her. Or he’s just doing what he thinks he’s meant to through the path of least resistance, and that relationship will probably not last.

Either way, she was not a good judge of him. I can’t see myself making that mistake. To think you accused me of not being a good judge of character or depth lol.

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