Life of a stay at home Somali father.

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That would be nice for maybe 3 weeks, but after that I would feel pathetic if I was a stay at home dad. But these people have YouTube money so don’t let them fool u
 
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Aren’t these the ones that had a baby because their subscribers thought it would be cute, they literally do everything their subscribers asked them to do:gucciwhat:they are both not educated so I doubt he had good job to begin with, they had like 50k subscribers last year then they started doing everything to gain some “fame” waa pathetic.
 
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HalimaJ said:
I wouldn't class that youtuber a stay at home dad in the traditional sense. He probably doesn't work outside the home because he has he making a killing on youtube. Therefore, he is working from home.
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arawelo 2.0 said:
Since the majority of Somali niggas are unemployed, they got the ‘stay at home’ down. They just need work on the ‘father’ part :gaasdrink:
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Dependz on the mother if she lets him but not likely since he may have started his own village with other local women on the low who obey and respect him as a man
 
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TheShinning said:
Aren’t these the ones that had a baby because their subscribers thought it would be cute, they literally do everything their subscribers asked them to do:gucciwhat:they are both not educated so I doubt he had good job to begin with, they had like 50k subscribers last year then they started doing everything to gain some “fame” waa pathetic.
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Typical attention seeking outcast losers like them former s now turned insta famous models
 
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Jaydaan said:
Fair enough lol. But I couldnt do stay home dad. Most women will lose respect for their man if they have to support him. Recipe for disaster
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Before I started working, I hated the idea of being a housewife but even though I have a good career, what I hate more now is the obligation to get up and go to work every single day until I’m practically on my deathbed. So you’re right, if I had to support my husband while he chilled at home I would for sure resent him even if it’s on a subconscious level.
I wonder if the flip side is true though. Obviously guys are brainwashed into thinking that they have to provide so maybe that stops them from resenting their stay at home wives.
 
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arawelo 2.0 said:
Before I started working, I hated the idea of being a housewife but even though I have a good career, what I hate more now is the obligation to get up and go to work every single day until I’m practically on my deathbed. So you’re right, if I had to support my husband while he chilled at home I would for sure resent him even if it’s on a subconscious level.
I wonder if the flip side is true though. Obviously guys are brainwashed into thinking that they have to provide so maybe that stops them from resenting their stay at home wives.
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I think men with housewives become bitter in the end. If I had to get up every morning to support a grown woman while she stays home and things dont work out. I would feel I was used and feel unappreciated. I have friends with stay home wives and they feel the wife has it too easy while the wife feels also unappreciated. I would like my wife to work part time atleast. But I also believe in work to live rather than live to work. So Im not gonna kill myself to be provider
 
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I think men with housewives become bitter in the end. If I had to get up every morning to support a grown woman while she stays home and things dont work out. I would feel I was used and feel unappreciated. I have friends with stay home wives and they feel the wife has it too easy while the wife feels also unappreciated. I would like my wife to work part time atleast. But I also believe in work to live rather than live to work. So Im not gonna kill myself to be provider
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This is the attitude and ungratefulness that irritates me the most.

Housewives 'work', they just don't get paid for it. They cook, clean and raise the kids around the clock.

The only reason why you don't value them is because they do not get paid for it. If she was cooking and cleaning outside of the home, would you feel less resentful then??

Any man that feels resentful towards a woman that keeps his home in check and raises his kids, which is the most important job is to mildly put it a doqon of the highest order.

Now a woman has to cook, clean, be the primary care giver and go to work? Whilst all you do is work and expect to come home to clean home and dinner on the table?

I hate to see it.
 
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HalimaJ said:
This is the attitude and ungratefulness that irritates me the most.

Housewives 'work', they just don't get paid for it. They cook, clean and raise the kids around the clock.

The only reason why you don't value them is because they do not get paid for it. If she was cooking and cleaning outside of the home, would you feel less resentful then??

Any man that feels resentful towards a woman that keeps his home in check and raises his kids, which is the most important job is to mildly put it a doqon of the highest order.

Now a woman has to cook, clean, be the primary care giver and go to work? Whilst all you do is work and expect to come home to clean home and dinner on the table?

I hate to see it.
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Housewife is not real work. Stop it sis....i wouldntmind taking care of 2 kids and be taken care of. Im not saying its easy....but ut does not compare to full time work
 
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Jaydaan said:
Housewife is not real work. Stop it sis....i wouldntmind taking care of 2 kids and be taken care of. Im not saying its easy....but ut does not compare to full time work
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Yes it is. People get paid to cook, they get paid to clean and they get paid to look after kids in daycare.

Being a housewife is a full time job.

I work and I am a professional, but i know that my mother who is a house wife is more hardworking than me.

Furthermore, being a mother is not easy in any shape or form and someone like you wouldn't understand the sacrifices and long hrs of motherhood.
 
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HalimaJ said:
Yes it is. People get paid to cook, they get paid to clean and they get paid to look after kids in daycare.

Being a housewife is a full time job.

I work and I am a professional, but i know that my mother who is a house wife is more hardworking than me.

Furthermore, being a mother is not easy in any shape or form and someone like you wouldn't understand the sacrifices and long hrs of motherhood.
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If it wasnt for my pride and society expectations on me as a man. I would be house husband while wife works. I woukd chill. In terms of cocking and cleaning. I already do this now.....come in sis. You know its not hard to make 3 meals or bit of cleaning
 
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If it wasnt for my pride and society expectations on me as a man. I would be house husband while wife works. I woukd chill. In terms of cocking and cleaning. I already do this now.....come in sis. You know its not hard to make 3 meals or bit of cleaning
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I was left with the kids for 2 weeks and had to be a housewife. Bearing in mind i already cook and clean and help out.

I found it tiring, tedious and never ending. It I have to choose full time work and housewife i know what I would choose.

Work is 10 times easier and I work full time btw.

As a mother/housewife you have to be the jack of all trades and it isn't easy.
There is a reason why we have to be grateful towards and our mothers and we are told that we can never pay them back. Even physically giving birth and breastfeeding takes a toil on a woman's body and the fact that a man would be resentful towards a woman for going through all of this and looking after his home is not the type of man a woman should bother having kids with.
 
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HalimaJ said:
I was left with the kids for 2 weeks and had to be a housewife. Bearing in mind i already cook and clean and help out.

I found it tiring, tedious and never ending. It I have to choose full time work and housewife i know what I would choose.

Work is 10 times easier and I work full time btw.

As a mother/housewife you have to be the jack of all trades and it isn't easy.
There is a reason why we have to be grateful towards and our mothers and we are told that we can never pay them back. Even physically giving birth and breastfeeding takes a toil on a woman's body and the fact that a man would be resentful towards a woman for going through all of this and looking after his home is not the type of man a woman should bother having kids with.
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Im not resentful towards women. Love and respect them. I wish i could find a xalimo like you and i would be stay home dad lol.
 
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