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Jake from State Farm

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HalimaJ said:
Men that are naturally providers that don't like a woman paying for them are very manly in my eyes.

I can't help it.

May God bless em.
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Regardless
Paying for first dates isn’t a problem. The only ones that will make you pay are the meninist and people who you actually made think u want to pay for your own meal after asking to split the bill.
 
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Zakaria Hussein said:
The smartest 1 xalimo and most genuine and humble one I've been out personally with always split the bill.

The other ones were typical xalimos who had the looks always expected me to pay.
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Struggle said:
Who made them the spokesperson of men? And out of everyone here you take Jerome's word our resident african american?:mjlol:
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Ah okay, so you disagree.

I've always felt that if a guy really likes you he would want to pay?

Where as a woman he is not serious about he might want to make her split the bill.

Am I really wrong? Other guys feel free to give your views.
 
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HalimaJ said:
Ah okay, so you disagree.

I've always felt that if a guy really likes you he would want to pay?

Where as a woman he is not serious about he might want to make her split the bill.

Am I really wrong? Other guys feel free to give your views.
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It depends on my mood. If i feel generous and she's not a hoe or a feminist, i'll pay.
It means she's willing to be a submissive housewife and a good mother. (if she's traditionnal).
 
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Factz said:
That's good but there should be no hypocrisy in both end. I see it like this. If I go into a date with a woman and she expects me to pay the bills then that's fine because you're showing a sign that you prefer & respect traditional roles. It's also a sign that she is wifey material who likes to cook, clean and do other chores while expecting her man to pay for the house bills and work hard to provide.
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This is a pill of Dog xaaar saaxib. Ok let me reverse the roles...when i go out with my friends if i have money and is asked to pay i will, if somebody offers to pay for me i dont hesitate...does that mean i respect traditional roles? does that mean i'll make a good "wife" because i suggested some strange man i have no relations with pay for me???
 
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HalimaJ

4head said:
It's funny how women say they love traditionnal men when it benefits them.
But in reality, they hate being at home and taking care of the kids and not leaving the house..Such hypocrites. Never pay for a modern western female.
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I think after having kids, i want to stay home the first couple of years.

But lets be honest, whether a woman works or not she will still be the main primary caregiver, which is why i don't mind being a stay at home because i would probably drive myself mad working and raising kids at the same time. Talk about doubling your load.

That's just my views though.
 
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Always Lit said:
This is a pill of Dog xaaar saaxib. Ok let me reverse the roles...when i go out with my friends if i have money and is asked to pay i will, if somebody offers to pay for me i dont hesitate...does that mean i respect traditional roles? does that mean i'll make a good "wife" because i suggested some strange man i have no relations with pay for me???
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I'm coming from a different prospective than you. If you know her and you're dating her than yes.
 
Zakaria Hussein

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HalimaJ said:
Ah okay, so you disagree.

I've always felt that if a guy really likes you he would want to pay?

Where as a woman he is not serious about he might want to make her split the bill.

Am I really wrong? Other guys feel free to give your views.
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Don't get me wrong I don't mind paying. And yes that's true, a guy will pay if he likes you. But i guess what I'm saying is if you offer to split the bill, the guy will like you even more as hell see quit considerate. But honestly it's not much of a big deal, only when she brings a friend on the date lol
 
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Magool

Honestly

If I go out on a date and a guy asks me to split the bill, he
will proceed to treat the rest of the other date evening like that, So
Boy bye " oo cirka uu bax".:tacky: Dhoocilniimo..

I’m old fashioned.
 
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HalimaJ said:
I think after having kids, i want to stay home the first couple of years.

But lets be honest, whether a woman works or not she will still be the main primary caregiver, which is why i don't mind being a stay at home because i would probably drive myself mad working and raising kids at the same time. Talk about doubling your load.

That's just my views though.
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Good on you ! Most western women prefer their jobs than having kids. Yet they still expect from men to be traditionnal. What a joke. They hate the so called "toxic masculinity" but it comes to dates and romantic relationships, men have to be dominant.
I understand MGTOW's and Meninist.
I won't pay for a low IQ female and a carreer oriented woman.
 
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HalimaJ

Zakaria Hussein said:
Don't get me wrong I don't mind paying. And yes that's true, a guy will pay if he likes you. But i guess what I'm saying is if you offer to split the bill, the guy will like you even more as hell see quit considerate. But honestly it's not much of a big deal, only when she brings a friend on the date lol
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Looool imagine if she brings a friend.

She doesn't rate you saaxib.
 
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Jake from State Farm

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HalimaJ said:
Men on here have just admitted that if they don't like a woman they would not pay.

Where as if they do, they would. How is it kibir wanting a man that is serious about pursuing you?
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If she can’t pay than that means she broke. I’m allergic to broke people. It would have been good to get rid of that toxic person as soon as possible
HIGH PRIESTESS said:
That’s your opinion, but I prefer a gentleman. A man who pays on dates shows that he has a respect for tradition. I like traditional roles as I have a phobia of liberal feminist sjw European culture :icon eek:
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I wouldn’t care about impressing a chick that I didn’t like
 
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HalimaJ

4head said:
Good on you ! Most western women prefer their jobs than having kids. Yet they still expect from men to be traditionnal. What a joke. They hate the so called "toxic masculinity" but it comes to dates and romantic relationships, men have to be dominant.
I understand MGTOW's and Meninist.
I won't pay for a low IQ female and a carreer oriented woman.
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However, even if they prefer their 'jobs' most women even if they work still end up doing most of the housework. Therefore, the reality is that even the most librated woman cannot escape traditional roles.

I'm sure some here where raised by working mums and their mums did everything other mums did, albeit being very tired in the process. No need to knock working mums.
 
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Jake from State Farm

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Screw paying for first dates that’s easy
@HIGH PRIESTESS @HalimaJ
In the future I will be having my wife pay for vacation trips to santorni Greece, Cuba, Hawaii, Vietnam :banderas:. We will have a jolly good time

I’m excited for the shoes and fortnite DLCs she will buy for me in the future as well.
 
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HalimaJ said:
However, even if they prefer their 'jobs' most women even if they work still end up doing most of the housework. Therefore, the reality is that even the most librated woman cannot escape traditional roles.

I'm sure some here where raised by working mums and their mums did everything other mums did, albeit being very tired in the process. No need to knock working mums.
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So? It is viewed as bieng "oppressed" if a woman prefers being a stayed home mother.
Woman being a woman is viewed by this Society as too old fashionned and old school and oppressive. Ask the feminists in power in Europe. They prefer being liberated. Nothing wrong with that but they can kiss my ass if they are waiting for me to pay their meals.
Hypocrites are toxic.
 
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HalimaJ

Jake from State Farm said:
If she can’t pay than that means she broke. I’m allergic to broke people. It would have been good to get rid of that toxic person as soon as possible

I wouldn’t care about impressing a chick that I didn’t like
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I'm far from broke. Alhamdulliah I have a very well paying job Alhamdulliah. I just like guys that are providers.
Nor am I the type of woman to take the piss and order the most expensive meal on the menue or suggest a very expensive restaurant. I fully understand that money doesn't grow on trees, as I work hard for mine.

But I want a man that likes to look after a woman. Some guys regardless of how good their intensions are aren't like that, and i'm not interested in them.
 
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Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
HalimaJ said:
I'm far from broke. Alhamdulliah I have a very well paying job. I just like guys that are providers.
Nor am I the type of woman to take the piss and order the most expensive meal on the menue or suggest a very expensive restaurant. I fully understand that money doesn't grow on trees, as I work hard for mine.

But I want a man that likes to look after a woman. Some guys regardless of how good their intensions are aren't like that, and i'm not interested in them.
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Oh u seem to be doing well. How has husband hunting be going
 
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HalimaJ

4head said:
So? It is viewed as bieng "oppressed" if a woman prefers being a stayed home mother.
Woman being a woman is viewed by this Society as too old fashionned and old school and oppressive. Ask the feminists in power in Europe. They prefer being liberated. Nothing wrong with that but they can kiss my ass if they are waiting for me to pay their meals.
Hypocrites are toxic.
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I think what they find oppressive, is the idea of women not having their own source of income. Tbh, most cases in which a woman cannot escape domestic violence happens in situations in which a woman is totally dependent. Sadly, having no money of your own and a partner from hell is the worst thing.

Also, those that look down on housewives are retarded. Housewives are hard workers. I personally believe being a housewife is harder than going to work 9-5.

I don't know, how mothers go work and come home and look after kids, clean and make time for their partners. They are super women.

The 'superwoman' lifestyle isn't for me. Ideally I'd want to just have my own business in which I can work from home.
 
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