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GoldmanSachs

Knowles said:
Walal there was a guy who made a thread breaking the news that girls like guy who look good. A lot of men need to be told to wash regularly and treat women with respect in order to date them. The red pill made them believe you can be ugly and treat women like shit and they will worship you at your alter. When that didn’t work the red pillers are now back tracking and saying it’s women’s fault for being shallow rather then the sloppy greasy men.
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I was barely half-awake in my last response. Why do you think so many of these young men are falling for the modern day snake-oil called the "red pill"? Would like to hear your take on this.
 
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Sophisticate

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Aziz said:
Well this is rather a fascinating exchange!

Sophisticate,

I'm guessing you are the sister, or rather the "female" that the "Alchemist" is dying for in this scenario. Please pray tell me you have plans to help him in this regard without being sarcastic in a most conspicuous a fashion?
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He's been with a village of women, sxb.
:faysalwtf:My fragile female ego wishes he could get his innocence back. He's admittedly jaded, soomaha.

Body counts past 0 are enough to rupture my pride. I want to own a Farax entirely. :gaasdrink:
 
Muji

Muji

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GoldmanSachs said:
I was barely half-awake in my last response. Why do you think so many of these young men are falling for the modern day snake-oil called the "red pill"? Would like to hear your take on this.
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I’ll have to get @sophisticate take on this. My immediate thought is it’s easier to blame women for your problems then to actually spend time trying to fix things and pursuing something you are passionate about
 
Malikfiqi

Malikfiqi

Knowles said:
@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
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Overall these things will make you a better person especially the maintance part. But if a Farah needs you to tell him these things maybe he’s already too far gone.
 
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Sophisticate

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Knowles said:
I’ll have to get @sophisticate take on this. My immediate thought is it’s easier to blame women for your problems then to actually spend time trying to fix things and pursuing something you are passionate about
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Rome wasn't built in a day. :yacadiim: Baby steps. Also, Jordan Peterson though sensation does encourage some form of personal responsibility. Fold your buusto before you take on the world. A small very benign change can cause a ripple effect.:fittytousand:
 
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Shuusa

Jake from State Farm said:
Literally Yesterday
I wasn’t sure if I should by a 2 in 1 shampoo conditioner bottle or just a a separate shampoo and separate conditioner.
I just bout the 2 in 1. I also purchased a leave in conditioner.


Lotion is very helpful. I like the good clear skin comments I get. People ask me what I do and I just respond with just lotion and water
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don't buy the 2 in 1 shampoo next time, for short term use like when you're travelling isn't bad but using long term can damage your hair.
 
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HalimaJ

GoldmanSachs said:
I was barely half-awake in my last response. Why do you think so many of these young men are falling for the modern day snake-oil called the "red pill"? Would like to hear your take on this.
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Insecurity. Women are gaining equal rights to men. Men feel threatened as they feel that their privileges are dwindling.

Same with white supremacists. They too believe they are victims merely due to the fact their privileges over black people are coming to their end.

Many who are traditionally at the top of the hierarchy do not want to be equal. They want to dominate, just like their ancestors did.
 
CanIDimo

CanIDimo

Knowles said:
@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
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YOUR THE REAL MVP FOR THIS.
WELL NEEDED
 
CanIDimo

CanIDimo

Knowles said:
@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
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I agree with everything apart from the cheat bit,

i will cheat i am a playa
good advice though i'll take notes
 
Cazzo

Cazzo

Wallahi, most men need just good akhlaaq, deen, and intelligence and honestly everything else from there is done by itself. Same for women. Do it like the Prophet (pbuh) said to do it and everything else is a smooth ride. However, lots of people are straying away from the Prophet's (pbuh) example with demanding things that shouldn't be demanded (i.e too much money, high standards of attractiveness, etc.) and as a result are finding themselves, as expected, with many problems. A good man attracts a good woman and vice versa. If you can't seem to find anyone, then perhaps you're the one who needs a reform.
 
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