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In all honesty sis, i have never had problems with women. Or no, that is not quite correct, i have never had problems with getting women. I have been out there and i understand all that you've said, it is a good read for all the inexperienced incels. But thank you nonetheless for taking your time on this incel salvation beginners guide.

I don't know how people on this site look like behind the screens. But i am a 190cm, well built, 7.5 inch, and handsome. And i am not lying. I don't even look like the average farax (not throwing shade at my brothers), most xalimos can't even tell where i'm from, and they get surprised when i tell them i'm mali.

What i have a problem with, is finding the right women, because all the women in the past that i have fuked, have ended badly. I admit, most of the problems were on my side, but i hate being held hostage like most women like. No real relationship can come of promiscuity. If i find you in a club and we f*ck, that means i will never end up with you, and most women seems to be oblivious on why i chose to have this rule.

I hold women in high regard, i have never touched a virgin in my life, and i have never seduced a stupid girl either.

But i'm changing for the better, i'm bored of that useless life, and i'm becoming older. So now i'm looking for a good natured xalimo with good sense of humor and intelligence. Where we can hold a conversation talk for hours, and where i don't feel like a teacher, if you know what i mean.

These days i only focus on become a better person. Build a good character, and i slowly am become a better person (i believe), and think only on my future. Because focusing on women and vanity is not something a man should do. A man should build a road for his children to walk on. That is what i'm focusing on today. Having pusssy and being handsome doesn't mean shit when you are emty inside.
 
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Walal there was a guy who made a thread breaking the news that girls like guy who look good. A lot of men need to be told to wash regularly and treat women with respect in order to date them. The red pill made them believe you can be ugly and treat women like shit and they will worship you at your alter. When that didn’t work the red pillers are now back tracking and saying it’s women’s fault for being shallow rather then the sloppy greasy men.
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Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Thankfully I don't need to try :mjswag: The only thing that I'm worried about is my bidaar genetics kicking in too early. Unfortunately my dad, grand-dad and all of my 15 uncles have a bidaar. If you find a youtube video which shows how to prevent that, then I'll give it a go

:dabcasar: What are you telling us Abdi?

:yacadiim:

Just in case we can't remedy the androgenic alopecia, do you have a perfectly spherical head?
 
how dare you make this thread after that soul crushing rewponse.

I am embracing inceldom. All I need is some warm tea and the internet.
 

Kratos

Sonder
:dabcasar: What are you telling us Abdi?

:yacadiim:

Just in case we can't remedy the androgenic alopecia, do you have a perfectly spherical head?
Let's just say that while I may have a poor chance of retaining my hairline past 35, I have been compensated for it in other features :gaasdrink:

And no I don't have a perfectly spherical head. I do not look good bald at all, that's why I'm worried. I need my hair :yloezpe:
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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In all honesty sis, i have never had problems with women. Or no, that is not quite correct, i have never had problems with getting women. I have been out there and i understand all that you've said, it is a good read for all the inexperienced incels. But thank you nonetheless for taking your time on this incel salvation beginners guide.

I don't know how people on this site look like behind the screens. But i am a 190cm, well built, 7.5 inch, and handsome. And i am not lying. I don't even look like the average farax (not throwing shade at my brothers), most xalimos can't even tell where i'm from, and they get surprised when i tell them i'm mali.

What i have a problem with, is finding the right women, because all the women in the past that i have fuked, have ended badly. I admit, most of the problems were on my side, but i hate being held hostage like most women like. No real relationship can come of promiscuity. If i find you in a club and we f*ck, that means i will never end up with you, and most women seems to be oblivious on why i chose to have this rule.

I hold women in high regard, i have never touched a virgin in my life, and i have never seduced a stupid girl either.

But i'm changing for the better, i'm bored of that useless life, and i'm becoming older. So now i'm looking for a good natured xalimo with good sense of humor and intelligence. Where we can hold a conversation talk for hours, and where i don't feel like a teacher, if you know what i mean.

These days i only focus on become a better person. Build a good character, and i slowly am become a better person (i believe), and think only on my future. Because focusing on women and vanity is not something a man should do. A man should build a road for his children to walk on. That is what i'm focusing on today. Having pusssy and being handsome doesn't mean shit when you are empty inside.


- Conversationally dexterous
- Good Natured
- Witty
- Pretty
- Straight-edge of the (white flower variety)

:farmajoyaab: What you're looking for reads like a horoscope, general enough to apply to many females on SSpot.

But what's wrong with being a perpetual learner? People are all teachers whether they like it or not. Some people are always glassy-eyed students that are broadminded and receptive enough to hear opposing views without being reactive or adopting them as their own. And don't mind reading about areas that are varied or outside of their wheelhouse in terms of expertise/knowledge.
 
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Lostbox

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@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????

@Knowles why the change of heart? Your helping all these young guys now?
 
In all honesty sis, i have never had problems with women. Or no, that is not quite correct, i have never had problems with getting women. I have been out there and i understand all that you've said, it is a good read for all the inexperienced incels. But thank you nonetheless for taking your time on this incel salvation beginners guide.

I don't know how people on this site look like behind the screens. But i am a 190cm, well built, 7.5 inch, and handsome. And i am not lying. I don't even look like the average farax (not throwing shade at my brothers), most xalimos can't even tell where i'm from, and they get surprised when i tell them i'm mali.

What i have a problem with, is finding the right women, because all the women in the past that i have fuked, have ended badly. I admit, most of the problems were on my side, but i hate being held hostage like most women like. No real relationship can come of promiscuity. If i find you in a club and we f*ck, that means i will never end up with you, and most women seems to be oblivious on why i chose to have this rule.

I hold women in high regard, i have never touched a virgin in my life, and i have never seduced a stupid girl either.

But i'm changing for the better, i'm bored of that useless life, and i'm becoming older. So now i'm looking for a good natured xalimo with good sense of humor and intelligence. Where we can hold a conversation talk for hours, and where i don't feel like a teacher, if you know what i mean.

These days i only focus on become a better person. Build a good character, and i slowly am become a better person (i believe), and think only on my future. Because focusing on women and vanity is not something a man should do. A man should build a road for his children to walk on. That is what i'm focusing on today. Having pusssy and being handsome doesn't mean shit when you are emty inside.

I skimmed read your long paragraph.
You go clubbing and fornicate, but then have the audacity to look down on girl like you?

Warya, the fornicating man is for the fornicating woman.
 

Lostbox

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If you can lose or gain a few pounds, dress better and have good social skills then I don't understand how you can be struggle. Enjoy life and women will some how wiggle in to yours.
 

Always Lit

Everybody lies, which ones are tolerable??
@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
lol.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Let's just say that while I may have a poor chance of retaining my hairline past 35, I have been compensated for it in other features
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And no I don't have a perfectly spherical head. I do not look good bald at all, that's why I'm worried. I need my hair
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There are options:
- Experiment with different diets
- Essential oils - cedarwood, rosemary, sage
- diatomaceous earth
- Try Ayurvedic herbs/oils
- DHT blockers
- Rogaine

Other alternatives (lol):
- Hair transplant
- Head tattoo
- Hair in a can
- Toupees
 
@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.

this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous

Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.

1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.

2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit

3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.

4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.

5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.

Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
You give them good advices, also I wanna add one more. Please stop using 3 in 1 shampoo and try to buy good moisturizer and lip palm. chapped lips and ashy skin are huge turn off.
 

Muji

VIP
You give them good advices, also I wanna add one more. Please stop using 3 in 1 shampoo and try to buy good moisturizer and lip palm. chapped lips and ashy skin are huge turn off.

Great advice sis

It’s amazinn what the right skincare, food, and hair care can do

I’ve seen one transform from ashy abdi to eligibility in under a year
 
In all honesty sis, i have never had problems with women. Or no, that is not quite correct, i have never had problems with getting women. I have been out there and i understand all that you've said, it is a good read for all the inexperienced incels. But thank you nonetheless for taking your time on this incel salvation beginners guide.

I don't know how people on this site look like behind the screens. But i am a 190cm, well built, 7.5 inch, and handsome. And i am not lying. I don't even look like the average farax (not throwing shade at my brothers), most xalimos can't even tell where i'm from, and they get surprised when i tell them i'm mali.

What i have a problem with, is finding the right women, because all the women in the past that i have fuked, have ended badly. I admit, most of the problems were on my side, but i hate being held hostage like most women like. No real relationship can come of promiscuity. If i find you in a club and we f*ck, that means i will never end up with you, and most women seems to be oblivious on why i chose to have this rule.

I hold women in high regard, i have never touched a virgin in my life, and i have never seduced a stupid girl either.

But i'm changing for the better, i'm bored of that useless life, and i'm becoming older. So now i'm looking for a good natured xalimo with good sense of humor and intelligence. Where we can hold a conversation talk for hours, and where i don't feel like a teacher, if you know what i mean.

These days i only focus on become a better person. Build a good character, and i slowly am become a better person (i believe), and think only on my future. Because focusing on women and vanity is not something a man should do. A man should build a road for his children to walk on. That is what i'm focusing on today. Having pusssy and being handsome doesn't mean shit when you are emty inside.


- Conversationally dexterous
- Good Natured
- Witty
- Pretty
- Straight-edge of the (white flower variety)

:farmajoyaab: What you're looking for reads like a horoscope, general enough to apply to many females on SSpot.

But what's wrong with being a perpetual learner? People are all teachers whether they like it or not. Some people are always glassy-eyed students that are broadminded and receptive enough to hear opposing views without being reactive or adopting them as their own. And don't mind reading about areas that are varied or outside of their wheelhouse in terms of expertise/knowledge.


Well this is rather a fascinating exchange!

Sophisticate,

I'm guessing you are the sister, or rather the "female" that the "Alchemist" is dying for in this scenario. Please pray tell me you have plans to help him in this regard without being sarcastic in a most conspicuous a fashion?
 
Guys here's an advice, follow this, and you'll never regret it.

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Everything you do in life should be for you, never to impress some chick.
understand this, and watch them flock to you like a magnet.
 

Mckenzie

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Experience is key. Talk to women, numerous women, go on dates, understand what gets them in a good mood or a bad mood, play with their heart a little, test them, go through rejection, get your heart broken too, it's all character building.

I've known plenty of chiseled ripped guys who have no game or never spoken to girls. They might have the credentials to be "eligible" but like an interview, it's not enough to be good on paper, you need to have a "culture-fit".

Most people don't marry the first girl they've met, it's usually the 3rd or 4th or 10th person they meet.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
Sis we gave the hold cold truth for both men and women. If you want someone to love you, be a valuable person to love. Instead they’d prefer to throw their money at Jordan Petersen and blame women for not being attracted to a slob.

Sister preach. :yacadiim:Let me add that self-love starts with a shift in perspective. One must feel like they are enough and deserving while doing inner + outer work. Condemning others (women) is simply a way of externalizing ones problems.
 

Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
You give them good advices, also I wanna add one more. Please stop using 3 in 1 shampoo and try to buy good moisturizer and lip palm. chapped lips and ashy skin are huge turn off.
Great advice sis

It’s amazinn what the right skincare, food, and hair care can do

I’ve seen one transform from ashy abdi to eligibility in under a year
Literally Yesterday
I wasn’t sure if I should by a 2 in 1 shampoo conditioner bottle or just a a separate shampoo and separate conditioner.
I just bout the 2 in 1. I also purchased a leave in conditioner.


Lotion is very helpful. I like the good clear skin comments I get. People ask me what I do and I just respond with just lotion and water
 
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