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@Abdi-indhoyare @The alchemist and all the other men on this forum, I often kick you abdis without offering any insight. Today I’ve decided to help.
this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous
Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.
1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.
2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit
3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.
4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.
5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.
Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
this advice is worth a million bucks and no one will tell you this for free! So I’m expecting a lot of hearts and thank yous
Here are some attributes that women find attractive when looking for a suitable partner and I will tell you in what ways these attributes are useful.
1. Confidence and charisma- the ability to work a room and charm people is something valued by both genders. If you’re walking in to the room with your shoulders slumped it doesn’t come across as being romantic and aloof, in reality girls will just think you are creepy. Confidence doesn’t mean you approach every girl for a date but it does mean you can approach women for a chat and you can make them laugh and then move on. Don’t be the creepy weird guy who stays long after his welcome.
2. Good looks/ grossness- If you are not good looking it’s not the end of the world, you can do something about your grossness. Grossness means not maintaining yourself well. Pay special attention to the way you dress, go online and look for inspiration. Fix your teeth if they are stained or wonky. Get a fresh cut and shave your beard off unless it can grow properly. If you can grow a beard you are in luck because that can hide a multitude of sins such as a weak chin. But it should be a nice well maintained beard like drakes. If you can’t then go to the gym. If you have acne, look online for some skincare advice from a dermatologist if you can afford it. And for heaven sake do not pick your spots or your skin will pit
3. Status/value/intelligence- find what you have going for you and work at it, improve yourself on this scale. You might not be the best looking man in the room but if you are the smartest she will enjoy talking to you and getting your take on things.
4. Listen- so simple but yet men really struggle with this. Men who don’t listen to girls and often forget what they were told are very frustrating and appear idiotic. Remember you have to earn her respect and the way you do that is by listening to her, which will help you learn more about her and then in turn you can avoid doing stuff she finds off putting.
5. Toxic behaviours- some guys have very low self-esteem and get jealous very easily or cheat to see if a woman will get upset and this will prove to you that she really likes you. Leave the toxic behaviours in films or you will end up in a very toxic relationship! Sort out your demons before you enter a relationship. Atleast if you want one to work long term.
Think of it this way, when a girl likes a guy she wants to tell her friends about him and she will usually pitch him to her friends. If you are gross, appear childish and are completely lacklustre around new people..what exactly can she say????
And it's totally non-invasive. Also, knowing is knowing and doing is doing.
Look at the before and after of mewing in action.
The only thing that I'm worried about is my bidaar genetics kicking in too early. Unfortunately my dad, grand-dad and all of my 15 uncles have a bidaar. If you find a youtube video which shows how to prevent that, then I'll give it a go
