Women don’t want good men

Inquisitive_ said:

They have no choice for upward mobility due to extreme low-self-esteem issues which comes as a result of not looking after themselves physically, psychologically and emotionally like other women.

They are just as bad if not worse then the bums they seek out, that bum is in exactly the same predicament as her having no other choices.

But the moment things change for him, he goes after better quality women then those he was accustomed to.

But things very rarely change for AA/Somali women, they mostly have fixed mind-sets rather then a growth mind-set, which sets them on a default path of slow gradual deterioration.

No one else wants them as a result, especially foreigners that have an abundance of quality women that are feminine, petite, look after themselves and don't all come from broken homes to choose from.

It's only the extreme losers in that group which Xaalimo's always end up with as a result of life-time neglect of themselves.

Even the AA women end up with better Non AA males then your average fat obese Xaalimo.

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GoldmanSachs said:

Have you considered the possibility that it's maybe, just maybe, the Somalis in your particular geographic vicinity largely fit that description? I don't know how you can talk so confidently by projecting a set of characteristics on all diaspora Somalis when all you have are just anecdotes and this site, which is not a perfect microcosm of the greater Somalia diaspora no matter how much you want to say otherwise, as supporting evidence?

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Pureblood said:

I tried moving to this one one time she had an okay body only problem was she was medium skinned but on the border with dark like one bad summer gonna have her looking like a different person kkk anyway I barely knew this and I can tell she wanted me to completely surrender and chase after her just throw all my dignity out the window. hit me with one of those “I been eating too much lately I need to get back to the gym” comments to which I responded and let her know she wasn’t fat and that if she wants to lose more weight that’s completely up to her but that I thought she looks good. Now I don’t know about you guys but calling a girl not fat is probably the greatest compliment you can give her (if she’s actually not fat ) once I dropped that comment she should have known what’s up but she wanted me to spell it out and basically be like a pick me type of guy where I say all this sus beta stuff in hopes she will choose me.


I just cut the off entirely nacaladi why do women not understand relationships are two way streets and I’m not a cuck. If she’s not matching the energy she expects from me then she can f*ck right off

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GoldmanSachs said:

Have you considered the possibility that it's maybe, just maybe, the Somalis in your particular geographic vicinity largely fit that description? I don't know how you can talk so confidently by projecting a set of characteristics on all diaspora Somalis when all you have are just anecdotes and this site, which is not a perfect microcosm of the greater Somalia diaspora no matter how much you want to say otherwise, as supporting evidence?

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Basra said:

Out of respect to Reiko, i say Plus size instead of the F word. Ma ha henni?

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Basra said:

Why u calling Reiko??? She is stuffing food before the married man comes by loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

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VixR said:

Yes, of course. There’s no problem. It’s not a running theme.

Everything is ok because you are.

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The alchemist said:

We don't have a gang culture in norway, nor rampant criminality in our society either and the xalimos are still chasing bum niggas. So the notion that there is few good men around holds no truth.

These useless xalimos can't hold a conversation without talking about social media trends and other superficial shit, they're all demented. Sheep programmed by media culture with no individuality, they all exude the same mannerisms as AA's, also consumer slaves. And the faraxs they chose are exactly like their match. Funny thing is, these men are the minority.

Most xalimos choose bums because they don't value themselves and ignore the good natured educated faraxs. Let's not dance around the subject and call spade a spade. I have been around and know this.

There exist many good natured respectable xalimos too, but the popular thing is not that.

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GoldmanSachs said:

You're making the mistaken assumption that sane, decent xalimos are chasing these dudes. The broads who get these dudes are just as crazy and dysfunctional as them. The thing is, women can generally hide their dysfunctions much better than we can.

No self-respecting xalimo from a good family and with a good head on her shoulders is in the business of "taming" the thug.

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GoldmanSachs said:

You know I'm one of the only few on here who will call it as I see it and not brush pressing issues under the rug. But you went to the other extreme. We've all apparently turned into AAs? Our situation is bad, which applies mostly to urban areas with major ghettos as you yourself have observed, but it's nowhere near the as hopeless as the AA community.

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