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Nope. Any woman who has a healthy self-esteem will not consistently date losers and bums.
The stark truth: bums and losers are the mean for them. Most of their men, or a good majority of them, are bums and losers.
Any time that happens, dating losers and bums becomes normalized, bc there are very few good men in their community and that’s what they’re used to. Instead of dating freely, they’ve put up with the mediocrity of their dating pool.
That’s starting to happen to Somalis, frankly. If you only date the good ones and out, it’ll self correct, but they accept mediocrity and quickly divorce and end up raising kids alone, so we definitely mirror them on that and absent fathers (in Somalia it was high divorce rate too, but it wasn’t as dire not to have a father figure there as it is here)
They have no choice for upward mobility due to extreme low-self-esteem issues which comes as a result of not looking after themselves physically, psychologically and emotionally like other women.
They are just as bad if not worse then the bums they seek out, that bum is in exactly the same predicament as her having no other choices.
But the moment things change for him, he goes after better quality women then those he was accustomed to.
But things very rarely change for AA/Somali women, they mostly have fixed mind-sets rather then a growth mind-set, which sets them on a default path of slow gradual deterioration.
No one else wants them as a result, especially foreigners that have an abundance of quality women that are feminine, petite, look after themselves and don't all come from broken homes to choose from.
It's only the extreme losers in that group which Xaalimo's always end up with as a result of life-time neglect of themselves.
Even the AA women end up with better Non AA males then your average fat obese Xaalimo.