Somali Divorces

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Mustafa

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Why do somali xalimos when they divorce a farax they go on a smear campaign to ruin his name and make his life hell but when she divorces a ajnabi she doesnt even want to talk about her relationahip with him let alone talk bad about him like he never existed.

Whats with this double standard?
 
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Mustafa said:
Why do somali xalimos when they divorce a farax they go on a smear campaign to ruin his name and make his life hell but when she divorces a ajnabi she doesnt even want to talk about her relationahip with him let alone talk bad about him like he never existed.

Whats with this double standard?
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True but what I want to really know is why do they always want to ruin the guy?

Dating/marrying out will put you in to negative light and most likely get blame for whatever they dealt with because tons of bad storys guys and girls marrying out, they don't want to be part of it.
 
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SomalilandForever

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When they divorce an ajanabi, that's 2 L's right there. Most somalis already know it's doomed to fail. There's nothing left to debate.

When it's 2 somalis, there's actually a discussion of what went wrong. The girls usually have better social skills so they can spread their version of events easier.
 
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SomalilandForever said:
When they divorce an ajanabi, that's 2 L's right there. Most somalis already know it's doomed to fail. There's nothing left to debate.

When it's 2 somalis, there's actually a discussion of what went wrong. The girls usually have better social skills so they can spread their version of events easier.
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Discussion ahh? I swear these ayayos are moving mad they all huddle into one Aunts Fahdi and discuss this shit and then you here that one divorcee making up the maddest lies while fake crying and all these gossipers be like "ha ayayo ha ooynin" and the next minute they're throwing the womans story out and somehow your other female relative in Australia finds out. And your standing outside the door listening to this shit and remembering how both the dirvorcees would spite each other while your hooyo makes shax for these gossiping buuran ayayos. Some next shit.:farmajoyaab:
 
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Discussion ahh? I swear these ayayos are moving mad they all huddle into one Aunts Fahdi and discuss this shit and then you here that one divorcee making up the maddest lies while fake crying and all these gossipers be like "ha ayayo ha ooynin" and the next minute they're throwing the womans story out and somehow your other female relative in Australia finds out. And your standing outside the door listening to this shit and remembering how both the dirvorcees would spite each other while your hooyo makes shax for these gossiping buuran ayayos. Some next shit.:farmajoyaab:
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Sounds personal bruv
 
Mustafa

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SomalilandForever said:
When they divorce an ajanabi, that's 2 L's right there. Most somalis already know it's doomed to fail. There's nothing left to debate.

When it's 2 somalis, there's actually a discussion of what went wrong. The girls usually have better social skills so they can spread their version of events easier.
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Ok but shouldnt that discussion remain within the family like "hey look for what ever reason this divorce is happening things aint working out lets divorce and co-parent and lets not turn our kids against each other and lets no bad mouth each other"

Instead theres always a pattern where somali xalimos go above and beyond to destroy a farax like contacting social services and snitching on their tax evasion activities, getting intervention orders so if he even calls her hes going to jail which ends up on his record, makes sure no other girl with a 100km radius doesnt marry him, where applicable make sure he cant fly out the country. Then when she knows your not employable shell call child support and then parades around saying im a single mother i support myself he doesnt care about his kids.

How can this same or similar story happen in so many households?
 
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Not all Somali divorces are like that, the divorces I’ve seen both parties go there separate ways without much drama.
 
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Well obviously they cant complain because everyone will just say I told you so. I've never seen anyone go on a smear campaign though
 
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