Tror du verkligen att hon är "the one" för dig? Vad är det som är speciellt med henne sxb?
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Confused and dont know what to do right now
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Wow, du är verkligen kär i de här tjejen
Vill inte låta som en hater men jag tror inte att hon e redo för a relationship för om hon var det så skulle hon inte ignonerat dig för en hel månad.
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Idk why though peopleFascinating. Tell me more about these alarm clock...
Idk why though people would assume it's the girl but I had one guy who I didn't even know like that say good morning good night everyday we weren't even in the same country so I was confused as to what to reply with. Even my friends conversations were like that wjere the guys kspt daying it first idk why they love doing that. I'd love to know is it easier to start convo that way idkFascinating. Tell me more about these alarm clock...
I think you should give her a chance don’t just assume I know some things speaks louder but give it a last try then if not just move on. All the best
Yeah, but what do you think about the advice I gave him? Halal, practical and grounded.
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Yeah, but what do you think about the advice I gave him? Halal, practical and grounded.
Yeah it was good but I doubt he will listen
Knowing how the feeble farax brain works he is going to meet up with her, pluck up the courage to ask her why she doesn’t initiate conversation, she’s going to give a bullshit excuse like exams or shyness. Then at the end of the evening he is going to bring up the mariage talks AGAIN, she is going to co-sign whatever he says especially as it will get awkward if she doesn’t and after all he has just brought her a meal. The op will go home celebrate
but will be back in the same situation six month time, trying to push a woman into mariage who can’t drop him a good morning text
You are just cruelYeah it was good but I doubt he will listen
Knowing how the feeble farax brain works he is going to meet up with her, pluck up the courage to ask her why she doesn’t initiate conversation, she’s going to give a bullshit excuse like exams or shyness. Then at the end of the evening he is going to bring up the mariage talks AGAIN, she is going to co-sign whatever he says especially as it will get awkward if she doesn’t and after all he has just brought her a meal. The op will go home celebrate
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Yeah it was good but I doubt he will listen
Knowing how the feeble farax brain works he is going to meet up with her, pluck up the courage to ask her why she doesn’t initiate conversation, she’s going to give a bullshit excuse like exams or shyness. Then at the end of the evening he is going to bring up the mariage talks AGAIN, she is going to co-sign whatever he says especially as it will get awkward if she doesn’t and after all he has just brought her a meal. The op will go home celebrate
I aint gonna lie, it hurt inside me reading this reply. Laakin it just convinced me even more to do as some posters advised me to do. Meet up with her before she goes on her trip in August and if not possible call her. And then explain How I feel and what I want. And then step back and see if she changes in how much effort she puts in this relationship. And from there decide if its time to move on or not.
Do you advice against this route or not since I’m usually a straight to the point guy and prefer to rather know the harsh truth rather than just waste time
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I’m sorry I shouldn’t have been that blunt.
I’m not against that route you’re going to take but once it happens if nothing changes, please stop making excuses for her and just move on. You’re a nice guy and I don’t want you to waste another 6 months in agony. Good luck.
No problem, honesty is better than sugarcoating the truth.
The biggest red flag right now is that she really takes her time replying to messages. It takes almost 2-3 hours for her to respond and the thing is that I can see that she is online and active on Instagram, Snapchat and Facebook. And while she doesnt open my snaps, you can see that she is sending other people snaps. So either she is with friends and doesn’t want to reply when she is not alone or she doesn’t prioritize replying to me that much.
I mean I try to respond as fast as possible when I can even when I’m out with my friends and chilling.
This thread is going to be trending for the next 5 days.
My boy @Lostbox predicted this :siilaanyolaugh:
Threads like these always are wallahi
You destroyed your chances as soon as you did that
I’m not looking for a hookup nor a gf-bf relationship sxb, and we literally live in front of each other so better to play it safe
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It seems that the signs are there that you ain't a priority, like you said.
Make istikhara and see what happens after.
The thing is that I don't want you to be heart broken. Because even if she agrees to marry you, the dynamics will most likely be the same (you initiating a majority of the time) which will breed resentment over time.
Good morning texts, you say? Never have I ever done that. I just intuitively assume the other party is alive until all communication ceases.Damn, this is all making me even more confused runti. Because if I tell her how I feel that i have to do all the initiating and courting all the time and she starts to be more proactive it’s just gonna feel she is doing it just cause she feels forced to do it.
Are you saying that it’s to late to save this because a small part of me just thinks that she is obnoxious to the fact that as a guy you also want to feel that the girl is also initiating and courting, have meet girls like that before.
I just want to meet a person who feels me as much as I feel her. Nothing more and nothing less
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