Marriage negotiotions used to be lenghthy and the girl and the guy who want to get mareied will be dragged for years. If she wants the guy she will go with him(laroorid ayaa ladhahaa). He wont even touch her and are usually accompanied by a friend of his. He takes her to his family and send back odayaal to do subeeyn xir(raali galin). Mostly meher will be done very fast and aroos to follow swiftly.
This is far from rape Toxique.
This is far from rape Toxique.