Inform them straight away? or keep quiet ?

Would you inform them at all ?

  • Yes straight away

    Votes: 12 80.0%
  • Yes but wait a long time

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Never inform, leave if there is a chance

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    15
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If your spouse began to gain weight (excluding pregnancy), at what point would you begin to inform them ? or would you inform them at all?


0-10 pounds

10-20 pounds

20-30 pounds

30-40 pounds

50-80 pounds.

Never



I ask this because we have this disgusting culture to remain silent until the women reaches a point of no return (50-80+ pounds gain while being fat at the beginning) and at that point that filthy swine either abandons her or gets another wife.

These odayaal's even at that point won't say what's in their heart (she's grown way too fat) despite the fact it's already to late and he remained silent too long (for fear of hurting her) but ends up delivering a fatal blow at the end anyway.

This disgusting practice also found it's way with our generation were the same joke takes place, too scared to say anything in the early stages as to not hurt her (she keeps piling on) until a point of no return is reached and he leaves.

I am beginning to see the same behaviours from the female's too, a healthy normal male suddenly growing massive belly, male boobs and thicker thighs then her and she still says nothing despite keeping herself in a normal shape (very rare)

The amount of cheating and divorces that take place because of these things which I have personally witnessed would shock many people, all because of this cowardice.
 
I'll let her know right away G. It isn't even about me, it's for her own health and looks.
you'd have to be xaasid to keep quiet.
 

GeelJirito

Qram Qram Jaw
He needs to maintain Six-pack until 55yrs, if I see little calool rearing its ugly head, he will sleep in the gym until its gone :camby:
 

RICH

The Qadr of Allaah ta’aala is always in our favor.
As the wife you should make sure you cook healthy and you can even give him a lunchbox for work. When it’s getting noticeable that he’s gaining weight, I would throw hints and if he doesn’t get them I would tell him straight up :mjlol:
 
same could be said about a farah weighing 100lbs at 6'0. when would it be appropriate too talk about the
health risk. iron deficiency is high among our community.
 
What's with all the weight talk today? Anyway I'd probably do it straight away as it's better to sort yourself out early before you go too far. Of course this is what I'd want someone to do for ME :manny:
 

GeelJirito

Qram Qram Jaw
As the wife you should make sure you cook healthy and you can even give him a lunchbox for work. When it’s getting noticeable that he’s gaining weight, I would throw hints and if he doesn’t get them I would tell him straight up :mjlol:

#3 on the marriage contract list is chef de partie :siilaanyolaugh: He should know his way around the kitchen, so there is no excuse of you fed me pasta and bariis.

Hints not gonna work on Faraxs, you should be straight up like is that calool?
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