Well, weep for my millennial friends. From the least attractive to the most beautiful who gets compliments from children, women and men are in a similar boat. Before I got married, it was a shit show. I could write a book from my experiences. I don’t want to stereotype Somali Millennial men, but it’s terrible from what I could see, although it’s good to have hope. I’m sure there are amazing men out there. I truly blame the low expectations of Somali parents and how they parent their sons vs daughters.
Also, the limited decent men who aren’t even that attractive now have a lot of options. It’s skewered the courting market now since even women who are beautiful with good personalities will struggle and be dangled by some men who think that their bare minimum means they’re the greatest ever. It’s to the point that a Somali girl marrying out might even be a good option.